Sunday, September 14, 2008

Keguguran/Miscarriage...

Kami mengalami keguguran anak tempohari. Pada hari Sabtu, O&G Specialist isteri saya mengesahkan apa yang kami dah teragak-agak sudah berlaku. Isteri saya dimasukkan ke hospital untuk menjalankan pembuangan kepalan darah sisa guguran tersebut dari rahim bagi mengelakkan infeksi.

Alhamdulillah, isteri saya selamat menjalani rawatan dan walaupun kelihatan lemah dalam sihat, terdengar ceria sambil diurut pantang sebentar tadi.

Kami tidak pun merancang, malah sebelum ni yang dah sampai 5 orang tak terancang pun, namun hiba sedikit tetap ada, walaupun doktor menasihati yang tidak sempat pun jasad membentuk. Jelas bukan rezeki kami kali ini. Kami bersyukur sahajalah kepada Ilahi serta menerima hikmah dari kejadian ini.

My boss presented an interesting perspective too, in that if the baby did not form, it was probably for the best, as it was better that he/she not survive rather than arrive incomplete. I would know no better and hope not ever to know...

I kept away from the blog/sms war that has erupted in earnest since late last week to focus on this as personal is not the same as important. I'm back...

9 comments:

My Oh My said...

Akram,

Sorry to hear that bro. Hope the best for your family.

Yazdi

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Saya doakan kebaikan utk saudara dan keluarga.

Puteri Kamaliah at-Tarawis said...

Sorry to hear of your misfortune. Sesungguhnya Allah swt lebih mengetahui. Didoakan semoga isteri Akram sihat segera...

Zahar said...

as salaamu alaikum,

Salam takziah kepada saudara dan juga isteri saudara, semoga tabah menghadapi ujian ini.

Semua dari Allah swt dan kepada Nya kita kembali.

Joe said...

Very sorry to hear that. We had a miscarriage too sometime ago and I understand that feeling of loss.
But Allah knows best. Hope your wife gets better soon.

karim said...

My condolences on the loss to you and your wife. I wish the both of you the very best. I admire the fact that both of you 'redha' at what had happened and continued with life - what courage... Certainly Allah know best.

whackthembugger said...

My condolences to you and family in your grave hours. Nothing happens except with the will of God and I trust and believe that this unfortunate event will bring you closer to Almighty. Be patient and steadfast.

Rocky's Bru said...

Bro, sedihnya. But like your boss probably meant, there is always a good reason for something.

azlina said...

sorry to hear that. semoga cepat sembuh dan tabah.

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